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The worst thing in the world has happened. You've been dumped. Maybe you had a fight and you've tried everything to fix the relationship, but it's not working. What can you do if you really want to get your exhusband back?
Well first of all, take heart. There are ways to get your exhusband back, that is, if you really do still love him. But there are also things that most people do which are sure to drive your ex away for good!
Here are five of the biggest mistakes that people make when they want their exhusband back and these are things you should never do.
- Don't do something spiteful. It's tempting to try to get back at the person who hurt you. My daughter's boyfriend bought her an engagement ring and when she said she wasn't ready yet to get married, he immediately took it back to the store and made sure he told her. He didn't realize that this was not a good way to fix the relationship. She was so hurt that he made such a snap decision that she became even more resistant to giving him another chance.
- Don't sit around the house and wait for that call. It's so important to keep busy and that doesn't mean constantly talking to your friends about the breakup or watching TV all day or plotting ways to get your exhusband back! It means find engrossing things to make use of your time. Read a book that you can't put down, go out with friends, join a club, take up a new hobby, or my favorite, go on a trip. Nothing will perk up your spirits faster than a new environment, even if it's a weekend away.
- Don't write a long, morose letter. It doesn't matter if you're apologizing, trying to show your ex why it's such a mistake to leave you, trying to make him feel guilty for hurting you or whatever. Guilt drives a person away more quickly than anything else. No one has ever gotten their ex back by making the other person feel guilty. You're better off giving the person a little time and space and let them come to the conclusion on their own that they miss you and want you back.
- If your ex does call, don't be mean. Don't place blame or make him feel guilty for hurting you; you want your ex to be glad to hear your voice. Keep it light, friendly and breezy. It's okay to let your ex know you've been busy, but try to stay away from the jealousy game. Just keep a casual attitude. You can be a little flirty and cute, and it's okay to give the impression that you're glad he called. Make sure the conversation ends on a positive note..."It was great to hear from you. Sorry I have to go, but I was just on my way out." This shows your ex that you're keeping busy but you're still happy to hear his voice.
- Don't patronize his favorite hangouts hoping to run into him. This is a pathetic ploy and an obvious one. He'll see right through you and it won't bring him back. You want him to miss you and think of the good times you had together! You should also avoid calling him, texting him, sending him emails, or any other of these ploys. Don't be a stalker. Your ex will start to think of you as desperate, and this will drive him away further.
So these are the biggest things to avoid doing. What should you do instead if you really want to get your exhusband back?
Go out and meet people. When the word gets out that you're out and about, it will make you seem more attractive. Take care of yourself. Get some new clothes, a new makeover or whatever will make you feel better about yourself. Don't ever leave the house without looking your best. You never know when you'll bump into him or into someone new!
Let him come to you. And when he does, don't make it difficult for him. It's easy to start the argument all over again by placing blame. On the other hand, don't make it too easy either. You want to make him realize that you are a prize that he has lost. So just leave the door open, be friendly and pleasant and see what happens! You may just get your exhusband back before you know it!
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Thea Heart is a relationship expert. She has discovered the best way to fix your relationship no matter how hopeless it may seem. It's so easy to do the wrong thing and lose your ex forever. For some surefire ways to get your ex back, visit: http://fix-any-relationship.com
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